“If you accept a limiting belief, then it will become a truth for you.”
Louise Hay
How true is that statement?
The question is – do you want it to become true for you… on any level at all?
Crystals are an astonishing tool which you can use to help you look at the thoughts you have inside your head, especially the repetitive ones, not to mention the seriously negative ones. No one is immune to this. We all have them. But what you need to realise and fully appreciate is the fact that they are harmful and you have to really own the idea that it is only you thinking them. No one ever forces you to have a thought, or to keep thinking it.. over and over again. It’s all down to you.
What you have to decide when you start to work on this level is – are you controlling your mind? Or is your mind controlling you? The answer is usually quite obvious when you start to look at what is really happening inside your head.
I would always start with fluorite which will calm you on all levels, as well as ground you, so you feel safe while you look at what you are doing to yourself. Really, in some cases – you are abusing yourself – mentally and emotionally by keeping some thoughts inside your head… and you need to stop!
One of the best crystals to work with when you do a life review like this is Lapis Lazuli. They key words for this crystal is self-knowledge… and that’s what you really need. If you know yourself, you will start to understand why you are thinking and behaving in certain ways. It will allow you to see the patterns you create in your life and learn to stop them repeating over and over again. It will also help you clear them because, as an added bonus, Lapis lazuli is also a deeply cleansing crystal.
One way of working with the stone is just to place it on the brown chakra and lay quietly while you observe what happens inside your head. Sometimes it’s a revelation when you work on such a conscious level with a powerful stone. But whatever you learn – even the bad stuff – is always information you can use to grow and expand into a new wonderful version of you!
When you have started to become aware of any thought or behaviour patterns which are not very helpful to you, you can ask the Lapis to clear the energy of the thoughts from your head… not to mention all the places it is stored in your physical body and subtle bodies. Then just lie quietly and let the stone work. Breathe the energy in through the brow chakra and let it spread out to fill the rest of your body. If you are drawn to place it on another chakra, or a specific part of your body, just go for it. Any stored negative energy you can clear from any part of your Four Body System will always be beneficial.
When you get the sense the Lapis has finished the cleansing process, you can also ask for the reasons (or root causes) of any of the thoughts that you found to slowly and gently rise to the surface of your mind, so you can start the process of healing and changing on a much deeper level. You can still use Lapis when you find out what needs to be done, but if you are drawn to use another crystal – just go for it!!! You will always know what is the very best thing to do for you.
Time to start actually believing that!
Clear Quartz brings clarity to the mind, so you might want to consider working with this stone and your Lapis.
Other crystals that you might find useful to work with – in any combination – are:
Citrine – this transmutes any negative energy it into positive energy and this stone is incredibly good at doing this!! This process will be enormously helpful to start the clearing process, but it will only change negative into positive. It will not actually help you stop generating the negativity if you do not take a long hard look at what you are doing to create it in the first place. It gives you a good place to start, though.
Aquamarine – this crystal emits the frequency of peace. So it is useful if you want to stay calm and relaxed while you work. This will, of course, ensure that any anxiety or tension generated when the negative thought patterns start to rise to the surface of your mind won’t be so challenging for you.
Malachite – at the solar plexus while you are working will be seriously helpful. It acts like a hoover (when used with intention) and it will suck out any negative emotional energy that surfaces in this chakra while you are working. It is much easier than having to deal with it!
One last crystal which is good to use for any type of clearing work is Black Tourmaline. Not the prettiest of stones, I’ll grant you, but it is both powerful and effective… and, really, everyone should have a piece!! Not only is it excellent for grounding – it can actually activate grounding between the base chakra and the centre of the earth when used with the right intention – but it is a protective stone, so it will help you feel safe and secure while you focus on releasing any negativity in your system. It will also keep you safe and secure – what more could you ask of a crystal?
Also, as it is a stone of purification, if you have a piece of Black Tourmaline, it is rather like having a sponge that will soak up all the negative energy it finds in your Four Body System! Specifically, though, it will clear the emotional body of negative thoughts, anxiety, anger and feelings of unworthiness. Used with this particular intention it is extremely powerful.
So, as you can see, Black Tourmaline is always handy to have around…. well, as long as you actually use it! Looking at it and admiring all the fabulous ways it can help you won’t be as useful to you! Though if you have it near you at night, it will help you sleep. It is truly wonderful at multi-tasking, this stone!
And, as a bonus, it can align all your chakras when you have finished working – as long as you ask, of course!
So, is it time for you to start looking for any limiting beliefs you might have lurking in the dark corners of your mind? I think so! If they are left there, they will only create a life that you don’t actually want, and, seriously, why would you want to do that?
If you are not used to working with crystals, you can use a Reiki II symbol to help you with this. The mental/emotional healing symbol will work in exactly the same way as the Lapis if drawn or visualized at the brow and used with the same intention.
HSZSN also works extremely well on the brow chakra when you are clearing your mind. It is, after all, far more than just a distant healing symbol.
Although there are many other healing energies available on the earthplane right now, and all of them are fabulous, in my opinion, Reiki is still the best tool for self-development on the planet, especially if you are only just starting out. Think about that…. and see if it appeals to you! It will certainly, without a doubt, help you on your journey towards wholeness!
But, in the end, whatever you decide to do – as long as you end up controlling your mind rather than just let it control you – is just great! Just go for the thing that works best for you and run with it!
Bright Blessings
Gailx
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